Things Not To Do in a Marriage
There are a lot of things people need to do in a successful marriage to make it work, but what about all the things that you shouldn't do in a marriage? One of the major things you shouldn't do in a marriage is have opposite friends and I mean opposite friends that you hang out with or talk to on the phone, not the ones at work that you say hi to at water fountain. These friends need to stay at work.
There is no room for this in any successful genuine marriage. If you think you can't live without these male friends to hang out with or flap your yap to on the phone then don't get marry. Marriage is not for you. And this goes for the man too. If he can't be satisfied with the woman God gave him with out having to hang out with other women, then marriage is not for him. Do yourselves a favor, don't waste your time or there's
Never and I mean never refuse your spouse sex when they ask for it. This is wrong and totally unacceptable from the husband or wife and will not be tolerated unless you're henpecked or wuss bag.
The bible says that when two people are married they don't belong to themselves anymore, they belong to each other. Your bodies belong to each other and you two are now one. So to refuse each other sex is to steal from each other. So if you have a headache take a powder, if the ball game is on turn it off and turn your wife on and give your partner what belongs to them. If you can't get it up, get some V iagra and lose the excuses.
Never lie to your partner. Don't do anything to have to lie for. Be a source if inspiration, integrity and honor. Respect your partner and let it show in your actions.
Don't take trust for granted. Trust must be earned, you can't buy trust. Once you violate trust you will always have the shadow of doubt cast over you. Even if your partner says they forgive you and they trust you again, you will always be in the shadow of doubt. So don't ruin a good thing by causing your mate to not trust you.
Never for any reason withhold your love, affection and physical touch from your partner. If you're doing this then you don't need to be married. There is no room in a true marriage for this kind of behavior. You need to hold their hand, give them passionate hugs and kisses and let what you do show how you feel about them.
Women keep your cleavage in your shirt. The world doesn't need to see your boobs or nipples sticking out these are for your husband's eyes only. The world can buy playboy magazines if they want to see these things. If you want to be an exhibitionist don't get married.
So I say to all of you married people out there respect yourselves and respect each other and each others wishes. You're married; you made vows for better or worse, so act like you meant it. Find new ways to spice up your marriages and keep your relationship fresh and sexy.
Love on each other like the world was ending tomorrow. Everyday is a fresh start with a new beginning.
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11:10pm Saturday 5-8-2010 Timothy Edward Wilhelm
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