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The sex drive killer we will discuss today are complainers, also known as whiners and cry babies. One of the biggest turn offs a man can have is to listen to a woman complain all the time.

People that complain drag other people down with them. They actually make all the other people that have to listen to them depressed or angry too. There is truth to the saying, Misery Loves Company.

These women never have anything good to say. They are not affectionate, loving, kind or gentle. They have no peace; if they did they wouldn't always be at everyone's throat. I believe these kinds women caused the phrased to be coined, Wham Bam Thank you Mam.

She was so unpleasant that men couldn't stand to be around them long. So once they got their rocks off, they were up and gone. Because to lay their and cuddle with one of those sharp tongued serpents would kill the mood. Then she would start that mouth up about why she didn't get hers. The truth is the man just wanted to get away from her before she got her mouth into gear again and started trashing everybody and everything.

Hey do you want some good examples of what these women are like? Of course you do. So my suggestion is for you to watch a few episodes of Bridezilla. I watch this sometimes just to remind me how lucky I am that I didn't marry the one I had. And I do feel sorry for the men on there.

If a woman was not a chronic complainer, she would be desirable in the eyes of men. She would be pleasant to be around, and her man would want to be by her side, instead just having her around for a piece of meat. It would be the difference in having a glass of wine or some caster oil. Which would you choose?

There's something about a cry baby or a whiner if you will, that just makes a mans blood and passions turn cold. For that matter any one that has to listen to it will eventually turn cold. They just rub everyone the wrong way. The sound of their voice is like some one scratching their nails on a black board.  A man would rather have a decent looking pleasant woman that a drop dead gorgeous complaining woman.

Even in the bible God tells you it's better to live in the corner of an attic alone, than in a fancy mansion with rich food with a complaining argumentative woman. God didn't want any one to get stuck with one of these vipers either, because they bring misery.

When you think of one of these women the thoughts sick to your stomach or wants to puke comes to mind. You know the kind, they complain about everything, everybody and the weather.

To them you can't do anything right. They complain about the way you walk and the way you talk. They complain about the way you dress and comb your hair. They don't like your shoes or your car. They don't like what you watch on TV, your friends or family.

They complain about people on TV, your friends, her friends, her friends friends, the neighbors, the people down the street, the people in stores and the way they do their jobs, people at work, the butcher, the baker and the candle stick maker.

You may hear this constant bitching so much that the sound of their voice is just a sick joke. It's like a course sand paper sanding away on a piece of metal, and your ears have to endure it daily. The thought of her face makes your nose turn up.

For the record bitching is not a cuss word. The definition of a bitch is a lady dog. But people use it to describe a woman that complains all the time.

A complainer is one person that you don't want in your life. They have people crossing the street just avoid them. When invited to do something together, people come up with a variety of excuses just to keep from spending time with the complainer.

No I'm sorry I can't go with you, the dog is sick; I have to wash my hair. I have to take may kid to the doctor, But you don't have a kid they say, well Im taking my friends kid to the doctor.

I have to cut my toe nails, I have to watch the mash marathon tonight, what ever the case may be they will make an excuse, just to avoid having to hear all the complaining, I'm sure you get the point. Complaining is just not attractive.

But in marriage complaining will make the husband avoid his wife like the plague, her constant complaining or nagging is like a faucets constant dripping, her attitude will put a damper on his sex desires, at least sex desires for her. It will cause him to just push her away and not even try anymore. A man will only take so much drama before he retaliates.

All of you complainers out there better not let anything come out of that mouth but sweet words and honey if you expect to have a loving understanding man. Because if you keep spewing filthy words and vinegar, your mans going to send you packing, or either he's going south to get away from you and that cobra bite of yours for good. Snakes are only attractive to other snakes.

So if you're a complainer and you want your husbands lovin, keep your mouth shut and your legs open.

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5-29-2010 Saturday 6:05 pm Timothy Edward Wilhelm

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