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When you go out for a date you want to try to look your best.  Don't go on dates looking like you just finished mowing the grass.

When you go on a first date you want to get to know someone and you want it to last as long as possible and enjoy yourself. You don't rush things. If something good is going to happen you are not going to find it out on a first date.

A first date generates knowledge of the other person, it hopefully generates interest and attraction or chemistry as they call today.

If a person does not have a good time on a first date obviously they are not going to want a second date.

You should never approach a date with the idea of getting laid.

The love and attraction comes first. You know what I mean, the excitement, the butterflies in the stomach, the anxiety anticipation of the next meeting.

The thrill of a new relationship with someone that you've just met that you're happy about is a rare thing to experience and when love finally comes around again you want to savor the moments.

If it is a successful relationship then you will eventually settle into it and comfortable with each other and form that lasting bond of being best friends that man and wife should have as husband and wife.

The three biggest words missing in peoples relationships today are the words I Love You.

If marriage partners spent as much time in their marriage showing each other love and affection and talking about how much they love each other  as they do watching TV and talking on the phone, they would have some great marriages.

The last two women I dated just wanted the physical pleasures of a relationship with out any commitment.

But I still have old fashioned values. Relationships based only on sex are doomed to failure. I agree sex is an important part of it but there is so much more to enjoy and cherish in relationship than making love for an hour.

People have forgotten the lost art of cuddling, hugging, and holding hands, along with the power of sweet words.

Simple things like going shopping together, working in the yard together, cooking together, taking a drive or walk in the woods, scratching each others back and looking after one another when one is sick, these are the simple blessings of life that are always missed.

The big word is togetherness. When 2 people are in love they will be happy just being with the other person no matter where they are going or what they are doing. It's not whether you want to do what the other is doing, as long as you are doing it together.

God made sex, but he also made togetherness, and romance and sweet words. That's why he said when 2 are married they will be together as one flesh.

So when you're on your first date treat it as a privilege be respectful and take things slow.

On a first date less is always more. So be calm and be yourself because you never know how far it may go, this just may be your lucky day and she may turn out to be your dream.

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5-6-2010 Sunday 8:21pm Timothy Edward Wilhelm

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About the Author:
Hi I am Tim Wilhelm I write information products and articles that will help men with their sexual problems, marriages, relationships and romances.

I also have a blog where I write of these problems an other issues of men's health, marriage, Romance and relationships, also product reviews on what works.

My blog is open to all males and females to discuss any problem or topic they would like to discuss. Nothing is too personal.

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