What Makes a Guy Fall in Love? No Headache, No Heartache
Are you feeling down and dreary because you don't know what makes a guy fall in love? Have you been on a number of failed dates that ended in disaster? Do you think the perfect man for you simply doesn't exist and if he does, you've no clue how to get him? Love can come to appear downright cruel when we've been hurt time and again. It can be hard to trust and love again, or it can be depressing going out to even try. Don't let failed romances get you down. There's always a chance your next encounter will work out and here's what you can do to help your chances.
When you mention wanting to be friends with a guy, most people will laugh. It's not thought to be a great way of starting a romance. Most women want to be swept off their feet. They want roses and dinner. They want violins and doves. They want the whole show and nothing less.
But this is an enormous weight to put on a guy who just wants to go out and meet a pleasant woman he can spend a few hours with. He wants to talk to you and not have to wonder if he's being poetic enough. He wants to have fun and bring you out to dinner without questioning whether the restaurant is appropriate or not. He wants to get to know you in the truest sense of the word and not simply on some superficial level.
If you insist on having the whole romantic novel as your dream date, it may never happen. And there's a good chance that this ideal you're clinging to is causing you to let a slew of fabulous guys slip through your fingers simply because he didn't initially fit the bill.
Give him a chance, Hear him out and you'll probably see the romantic in there over time. Have fun and think more about laughing than romancing. This can be such an exciting time for both of you and if you just relax and let the fun times take over, it won't be long before he's feeling a bunch of emotions he hadn't anticipated.
This is the best way of falling in love. Without expecting it. Without looking for it. It just hits you straight in the heart and you're both helpless to fight it.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.